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Life, friends and family are truly wonderful blessings - the true secret to happiness

It’s always ‘way smart
when one listens to their bodies…and takes it easy to the xtreme.

Okay, true, I did get my P90x workout in, but besides that, I gave myself permission to take a nap in the morning, nix going to the gym, and enjoy some nice calm work online.

But the thing that really made an impression on me today was at karate. I normally do not take beginners anymore, as I’m ‘way past that, but my daughter’s friend participated so I joined in again. And I was able to watch my kids practice, and then see my husband arrive with the other kids, and watch how content they were….and I realized that now, in my 40s, life is really darned good.

I think that the true secret to happiness is appreciating the good times, loving your family, laughing with your friends, realizing the bad times - they do indeed pass, and witnessing how your actions can give joy to the lives of those important to you.

Work - it’s transient.

Shallow friendships - they’re beyond transient.

Angsting over the small stuff - a waste of time beyond belief.

Teaching the above to your kids and letting them internalize what’s really important to them - now that’s an incredible gift to give.

So! If you have folks you love and people you cherish and family members who mean the world to you - take the time and let them know how special they are. I did today, and it really made their day. So often, we just don’t take the time to let people know their importance in our lives.

I am one lucky woman indeed, I am.

Time to call it a night,

Barbara

ps - Valentine’s day is coming up!



    About The Author

    Barbara Ling lost 45+ pounds during 2007 and now reveals her secrets to a Safe and Successful Weight Loss Strategy that anyone can do. An avid writer, she is the author of 25 books/ebooks and has been lauded in the Wall Street Journal, Inc. Magazine and more. Her book will show you exactly how to craft the perfect weight loss plan that simply cannot fail.... as it's targeted to your needs, and your needs only.

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