Believing in your children, believing in your students…believing in yourself
Morning,
Yesterday’s karate class was (as always!) quite an eye-opening experience. Ever since last week when our beloved sensei drilled us until exhaustion (but he didn’t break us!), my family has adored going to Wednesday classes. We view it as an Ultimate Challenge - will we survive without asking for a break? Will our warrior will beat that of our sensei? etc.etc.etc.
Anywhos, alas, yesterday brought a number of newcomers to the class, so the desired “Go ahead! You can’t break me!” test of wills didn’t happen. Wah! But! During one of our drills, we had to kick a pad down the room one way, and then back up the next.
My eldest daughter went against our beloved sensei…and when she threw her first kick, he….
Didn’t budge.
Didn’t move.
Just gave her a look that said, you honestly expect me to believe that’s your best?
It took three kicks before he finally did move. And he kept up that intensity the whole time….resulting in my daughter doing approximately 3 times the number of kicks the other students did.
Now, keep in mind the following. I had given permission for my kids to be tested at the toughest level possible….and wow oh wow, but my daughter finally gave a performance she didn’t realize she had in her.
Simply because….her sensei held her to a high standard.
I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to let kids know you believe in them…and to shun half-buttocked attempts and demand the very best they can do. My family is really lucky - all of our senseis at our dojo really know how to bring out the best in kids (adults too!).
So! The next time your child whines about something being too hard…and you know they can rise to the challenge - demand it. You might be surprised at the response.
Enjoy,
Barbara
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